Saturday, October 16, 2010
I received my latest installment of aged wisdom from the 90 year old man who sits near me at our local high school football games. At a recent game, while I was visiting with him at half time, this gentleman told me the incredible story of his father's journey to the United States in the early 1900's. My friend and his wife presented a fascinating tale of how his grandfather divided a bag of gold coins among his children the night before their village was to be raided and told them to flee under cover of darkness and to spread their family to the ends of the earth. With nothing but a few pieces of gold and the clothes on his back, my friend's then 15 year old father made his way from the mountainous Middle Eastern village that had been his ancestral home for centuries to the Boston Harbor, and eventually to Nashville where he became a successful and wealthy business man.
As my friend finished the story he held out his hand and showed me a gold ring with a small gold coin inlaid in its face. He told me the ring was made with one of the coins his father had brought with him on his journey. He then explained that gold had saved his father's life and gold would continue to provide security for his family's future.
As impressive as that story was, it was my friend's next statement that I found to be even more noteworthy. He looked directly into my eyes and said: "Let me tell you something. Gold is a secure investment and gold saved my family, but nothing will secure your future better than integrity and a strong work ethic."
Gold, or any wealth by itself is finite. Left alone, it will eventually run out. The gold my friend's grandfather gave his children for their escape was enough to secure their freedom and to ensure a continuing family bloodline, but little more. Once my friend's father arrived in the US, it was his work ethic and moral compass that turned a few remaining gold coins into a thriving business and a family fortune. This poor immigrant didn't hope for success, or wait for a handout; he worked for his fortune and he earned security for himself and his family.
By combining a strong desire to work for success and a core set of values upon which your life is based, your life will be golden too, just as the life of my friend had been.